Learning to share

Today after running around at the park, I went in search of some acorns. I found some and was so proud of them. But when my teacher came by and asked to see them I said, “No, my acorns.” She is used to my outbursts and let it go. Later I felt bad about that so when a classmate came by I shared my acorns with him and then immediately reported to my teacher telling her that I shared. She was very proud of me and complimented me on sharing, and I ended up with a huge smile on my face. I’m still working on sharing, but making progress.

Not my color

We went shopping for a new jacket today. It is getting colder and my old jacket is a bit too small and doesn’t cover the length of my arms. We found a nice down jacket, but I just wasn’t feeling it. I’m so used to my red jacket that the blue just didn’t feel right. I guess we’ll have to keep looking.

*Update: We bought a new jacket for me. Well, actually we found the exact same red jacket that I have in a larger size at a second-hand store. While I wasn’t willing to get any of the other jackets we looked at, I was fine with the same jacket style. So you probably won’t notice it, but I have a new jacket!

Bath time conversation

Tonight I asked Daddy to give me a bath and we started with our usual routine. I brought a car watch me from the washing machine, I turned on all the lights and pulled down all the mats that were hung to dry. Then Daddy helped me take off my shirts and turned them into hats. I had to go and show Mommy and then I reported her reaction. Then I finished undressing myself.

But before I went into the bath area I told Daddy, pointing at his hoodie, “No, dirty, water wet , off, water wet.” Daddy quickly understood my meaning. “You want me to take off my jacket so it doesn’t get wet from giving you a bath?” he asked. I told him yes.

Running around at the park

At the park today we ran around, sometimes playing chase, other times following the lines our teachers drew in the ground. After all that running I asked my teacher to hold my hand as we walked around and explored. I often ask my teacher to hold my hand while we are at the park. It is nice and comforting, but sometimes I can be a bit possessive when other classmates come by wanting to share my teacher. I’m still working on sharing.

Some nights…well, many nights, I wake up in the middle of the night and realize that I’m all alone in bed. I sometimes just put myself back to sleep but sometimes I immediately get up and look for Mommy. When I find her, she brings me back to bed and I’m asleep almost instantly. It is almost as if I didn’t wake up at all, and to be honest I don’t really remember waking up.

If I don’t find Mommy, like when she is in the shower, then I will cry and wait until she is available. Daddy cannot console me, only Mommy. Lucky for me (and Daddy) Mommy was there when I came out looking for her.

Labor Thanksgiving Day

Did you know that we have a thanksgiving holiday in Japan too? It is not just plain thanksgiving day, it is Labor Thanksgiving Day. What is it exactly? I don’t really know, but I’m happy to have a holiday on November 23 every year. It gives me time to catch up on some reading and playing.